Please don’t blame those caught in the middle.

This will probably make me highly unpopular, but it needs to be said.

Please don’t blame the blameless, blame those that put them in that position.

This is about J.K. Rowling. I also ramble a bit, sorry!

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Race memory across the ages. Or Is evidence of truth in soul mates hidden in our phobias?

This is a thesis questioning if what people have suspected and argued for centuries has a basis in truth; are there really such things as soulmates? But also, are our seemingly irrational phobias actually understandable? Continue reading

Rape, domestic abuse and what happens when you’re 1 in 4. Graphic content, caution required and recommended.

I’m warning you all now, if you want to read this, that’s fine, if you have experienced similar things, I hope this post helps you. But I warn you, it’s hard and dark, almost as hard to write as it was dark to experience. This post features rape, domestic abuse, mental health issues, including depression, anxiety, PTSD and unhealthy coping mechanisms. I want it off my chest.
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The problem with mental issues

As many of you know, I have some mental issues. We’ve covered them, but just in case, PTSD, anxiety, depression and a generalised rage at everything. There’s the rub, you’re mental? Tough, deal with it. Oh, you’re dead? Well, never mind then.
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